tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post8731777219200587112..comments2023-03-29T20:12:25.263+11:00Comments on Under the Windmills: Its not OK to have kids if your under 21.Suzi - Under The Windmillshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05837824105735439845noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post-64173047374784774702012-02-20T14:17:46.440+11:002012-02-20T14:17:46.440+11:00I had my son at 25. My mother however had me when ...I had my son at 25. My mother however had me when she was 17. Her mother had her at 17. Recently we were out and my nana was there. My sister in law's new boyfriend made the comment that teenage mothers were cheap ***ts. My nana was horrified and so offended. I can't believe anyone could be so narrow minded- it is 2012 FFS.<br /><br />Hold your head up. I bet you are an awesome mum and anyone who judges you without knowing you should "go Jump".Rhiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10126645209443919352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post-37168255692802677342012-02-13T23:59:44.701+11:002012-02-13T23:59:44.701+11:00You are exactly right. Out with my youngest who is...You are exactly right. Out with my youngest who is 2 1/2, people fall over themselves to compliment me. Add my ten year old, they get the lemon lips and the "You look so YOUNG" bitching out. It doesn't help that there are a majority of young, welfare, drug addled, lazy kids out there having babies for money which they spend on hoodies and tattoos. It means that those of us who may actually be looking after our children get so much SHIT everyday.<br /><br />I smile sweetly at people, it wrong foots them enough for me to get away.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11013644060776706268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post-62981977673738952522012-02-13T18:26:07.683+11:002012-02-13T18:26:07.683+11:00I had my first baby at 20 not long before my 21st ...I had my first baby at 20 not long before my 21st birthday and have been really blessed that I never received dirty looks or had to deal with nasty comments! <br />How rude are people?? It's no ones business how old you are as long as you look after those babies properly!! <br />Now I am 40 and love having my 20 year old daughter and 18 year old son and not having to deal with nappies and toddler tantrums like some of my school friends are going through!! <br />I hope this doesn't happen to you anymore that is just nasty!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post-3880895346565014512012-02-13T15:04:02.514+11:002012-02-13T15:04:02.514+11:00I had my daughter when I was 17 yrs old, she was a...I had my daughter when I was 17 yrs old, she was a result of being raped.(I'm now in my 40's) I found people gave me a wide berth but that was their problem not mine.<br /><br />I notice a lot of the older ladies at the time checked to see if I had a ring on my finger to say I was married.<br /><br />You would think even today a lot more people accept younger parents but I still see a lot of younger parents getting put down.<br /><br />(((( Hugs )))) XXXX Kisses XXXXMs_MotorbikeNuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09583193840744649238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7510416466718757712.post-63263995992417399092012-02-13T15:02:07.823+11:002012-02-13T15:02:07.823+11:00I love this post! I can so relate!
At 22 with two...I love this post! I can so relate!<br /><br />At 22 with two boys (2 and a half and four month old) I still get horrible looks and some horrible comments (You don't look old enough to have kids, they aren't both yours are they etc).<br /><br />I have come to the conclusion that people are just rude. Anyone that knows me knows I am a good mum and that is all that matters :)Melindahttp://mummainheels.comnoreply@blogger.com